Back from the Dead

The thing about social media is that anybody can see what you say and post online. People who don't know you well enough will look at your social media and assume they know who you are as a person. But to be honest, most of us are still figuring that out for ourselves. Truth is, … Continue reading Back from the Dead

Exhaustion

I'm afraid of pushing myself too hard, however at the same time I'm equally afraid of not putting in my best work effort. In the end, I push myself too hard anyway.   xx Solaris Denali

How to Plan and Organise Your Life to Achieve Goals

I love to binge watch Lavendaire whenever I want to get motivated and inspired to do my work. Lavendaire is a channel where Aileen shares tips and tricks on how to manage your life and be a better version of yourself. Basically, she is the living and breathing example of who I want to be … Continue reading How to Plan and Organise Your Life to Achieve Goals

Steps to a Better Me

Is it selfish of me to feel the tugging of my heartstrings whenever I see you happy with somebody else? I know that you still love me, and you know that I do too. I know that commitment isn't something that I can ask for, and I know that we both need to work on … Continue reading Steps to a Better Me

Learning to live

Here's the problem I've realised about myself; I have dreams. I have so many dreams, so many goals. But none of them are important enough for me to want to fight for them. None of them interest me enough for me to want to ignore social conventions, drop everything and get it done. I still … Continue reading Learning to live

18 Things to Remember

Here are 18 things to remember in 2018: Keeping yourself motivated to do things is hard, but not impossible. When you catch yourself being too negative about yourself or someone else, stop. Try to always be mindful of how you act, speak and the words that you use. Listen to music whenever you feel like … Continue reading 18 Things to Remember

Depression is a Loaded Gun

Hi, guys. I just wanted to share this post (written by Derek Powazek, the link is at the end of this post) with everybody because I feel like there is something in here that we could all learn from. I think this alternate analogy of what depression really is might help others define what their … Continue reading Depression is a Loaded Gun

Brick Wall

A haiku; Brick Wall by Solaris Denali Brick by brick, I build Small little sunflowers bloom, Shrouded in darkness. It pains me, you see Yet no text nor call received. I peek, plead for you. You do not hear me Or perhaps you do, liar. Brick by brick, I build.   I like poetry. What … Continue reading Brick Wall

Life Advice | Hack Your Mind

I feel like everybody needs to put aside 16 minutes of their time to watch this video. It's so inspiring and it applies to everything from tackling depression, your own limits, memory, and bad habits. I think everybody can learn something from this video. And his analogy about being your own superhero is so relatable, … Continue reading Life Advice | Hack Your Mind

A Work in Progress

Today is only the 2nd of January and this year has already provided me with the most mentally grueling experiences I have ever had to overcome and accept. This year my main goal is to finally come to terms with being less emotionally dependent on other people for my happiness and my general will to … Continue reading A Work in Progress